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A Little Extra Love is a Christian ministry founded by disability parents. We equip churches through Inclusive Pathways, help church plants build belonging through PLANT Pathways, and walk alongside families with Scripture, prayer and practical support.

Churches that are ready. Families that belong.

WHOLE-FAMILY CARE · CHURCH READINESS · BIBLICAL BELONGING

For churches · Inclusive Pathways

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The Vermeulen family.

For church plants · PLANT Pathways

For families and caregivers · Support, gatherings and resources

What began as honest conversation and support around our own table grew into a ministry caring for families and helping churches turn good intentions into everyday belonging. We believe families should not have to choose between following Jesus and finding a church where their whole family can participate. That conviction still guides every gathering, resource, training, and conversation.

We did not give up on the Church. We got to work.

When Caleb was extremely sick, we moved to Colorado looking for answers, resources, and a church our whole family could call home. We visited more than sixteen churches. At one of the last, before we even made it inside, someone looked at Caleb and said, “Sir, I’m sorry, we don’t do that here.”

Our calling began at home with our son Caleb, who has Down syndrome, autism, and complex medical needs. Raising him has filled our family with joy and opened our eyes to the realities disability families often carry.

Family life is where the work began and where it keeps returning.

It started in our living room.

OUR STORY

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Practical church training and consulting shaped around your people, culture, volunteers, space, and next faithful step.

Inclusive Pathways

FOR CHURCHES

Find Family Support

Faith-based support for parents, marriages, siblings, and the whole family, with space for honest life, lasting friendship, and hope.

A Little Extra Love

FOR FAMILIES

Belonging grows when families are supported and
 churches are equipped.

Preparing churches. Caring for families.

TWO PATHS, ONE MISSION

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FOR CHURCH LEADERS · LOCAL CONTEXT

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Built from lived disability-family experience.

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Shaped with pastors, parents, volunteers, and ministry leaders.

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Focused on practices churches and families can actually sustain.

Built from lived experience. Shaped for lasting practice.

WHAT GROUNDS THE WORK

Move from planning into practice with hands-on implementation.

Launch

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Train leaders, staff, and volunteers with tools that build confidence.

Equip

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Create a roadmap shaped around your size, team, capacity, and goals.

Build

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Understand where your church is strong and where families still fall through.

Assess

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Inclusive Pathways helps churches assess, build, equip, launch, and sustain inclusive ministry, customized to their size, team, and capacity.

Most churches have the heart. Few have the plan.

FOR CHURCHES

A PROGRAM BY

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Sustain

Build a culture of belonging that lasts beyond one event or one person.

Practical training gives leaders and volunteers a shared path forward.

Inclusive Pathways helps leaders assess what is happening now, equip the people who will carry the work, implement changes that fit the church, and build a culture that lasts beyond one event or volunteer.

Explore Inclusive PathwaysTake the Church Inclusion Scorecard
  • Parents and caregivers
  • Marriages
  • Siblings
  • Bible studies and spiritual care
  • Gatherings and community
  • Advocacy and practical resources

We write monthly Bible studies and gather families through GROW Groups across the U.S. and Canada, Rooted Dads and retreats. Our Parent Advocacy Guide helps parents begin a gracious conversation with their church.

You do not have to walk this road alone. A Little Extra Love is a Christian ministry founded by disability parents. We come alongside your whole family with Scripture, prayer and practical help, so you can grow in faith and belong in the body of Christ.

Support for the whole family, not just one child.

FOR FAMILIES

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KEY MINISTRY · 2025

INTERVIEW · KEY MINISTRY

Supporting Families Affected by Disability with Rachael VerMeulen from A Little Extra Love: Podcast EP 134

RACHAEL VERMEULEN · 2025

TEACHING · DISABILITY & THE CHURCH

The Partnership Playbook: Navigating Resources for Disability Support

OWN PODCAST · 2026

LISTEN · A LITTLE EXTRA LOVE PODCAST

A Dad's Roadmap After Diagnosis: Presence, Provision, and a New Story

A compact record of teaching and interviews grounded in lived disability-family experience and practical work with churches.

Watch and listen to recent conversations

TEACHING & MEDIA

Real conversations are already happening in churches, conferences, and trusted ministry spaces.

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I want to help families receive care and churches become ready.

03 · SUPPORTER

Help My Church Get Ready

I want practical help building a sustainable disability ministry and church culture.

02 · CHURCH

Find Family Support

I am looking for faith-based support, community, or resources for my family.

01 · FAMILY

Where do you want to begin?

CHOOSE YOUR PATH

TWO DISTINCT GIVING PATHS

Choose the path that matches your intent.

Support family care, gatherings, church resources, and approved ministry operations.

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MINISTRY PROGRAMS

MISSION PARTNER

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Support Kyle and Rachael’s ongoing missionary service.

USEFUL NEXT STEPS

Resources for the road in front of you.

Start with one practical resource, one church conversation, or one honest story.

FOR PARENTS AND CAREGIVERS

This Is Our Church, Too

A parent advocacy guide for preparing a calm, practical conversation about what your family needs to participate and belong.

Get the Parent Advocacy Guide →

FOR CHURCH LEADERS

Churches That Are Ready. Families That Belong.

See how Inclusive Pathways gives church leaders a visible, practical path from good intentions to sustainable practice.

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PODCAST AND STORIES

A Little Extra Love Podcast

Listen to honest conversations about disability, faith, family life, and building places of real belonging.

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Belonging grows when families and churches do not have to figure it out alone.

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